MISS SOMEONE
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We always wonder why do we miss someone. We keep on fighting with ourselves that what's the reason for missing that person? When you want to continue relationship with the person you keep on missing, you need to be clear with your intention. There might be you love that person, you like that person, you respect her/his qualities or that person is always with you when you need someone to lean on. Whatever may be the reason, it's very nice feeling to miss someone. You keep on thinking about that person whole day and night or if it's worst you might start imagining him/her near you. Many people feel that it's the worst feeling to miss someone but sometimes I feel it's the sweet pain and you can for sure enjoy missing someone. The only thing you need to remember is that you have to miss the golden moment you spend with each other. Please don't ever miss bad times you spend with that person. Always try to cherish the good moments and it will surely bring a smile on your face. Another thing which people do is to hide their feelings of that person they are missing. You must keep your ego aside and convey your feelings to that person. Life is too short; if you love or you miss someone do let them know. If that person understands you, it would never ruin your relationship.

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THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK!. CHOOSE YOUR WORDS CAREFULLY.
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Yes! I strongly feel that now one has to be increasingly aware of every word that he or she utters from his or her mouth. It is like shooting a bullet from the gun, which does not come back once it is shot from the gun. Words spoken without thinking can have damaging effect on anybody; who is at the receiving end of those spontaneous verbal volleys.

Just like clothes which reflect a person's status and background; language too is a very important indicator about the person's grooming and the character that he or she may have.That's why it becomes all the more important to choose your words carefully.

A great way of doing it would be to first ascertain the kind of audience you are speaking in front of. Educated and intellectual audiences would definitely not feel comfortable with rustic terms and might get put off by your comments.

Another great way of doing this is, to learn to be a good listener first; a method that i have been using in my communications for a long time now. If you listen to what others are saying first, it would be much easier for you to decide about the kind of communication you need to adopt for that particular discussion.

Jumping early into a discussion and speaking your mouth out might make you feel a bit out of place at times, if the other participants in the group feel offended about some of the comments.

Basically, the idea should be to let everyone speak and have their piece of minds right in front of all. Getting too enforcing about a point and proving your superiority can often result in misunderstandings being generated and the discussions being cut short and soon curtailed to a dead end without any healthy outcome.
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SINCERE SUPPLICATION FOR HIM
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[Hit his head against the steering wheel of his car. Had suffered serious head injuries - a scan revealed that blood had clogged his brain. Passed away - Friday- 29th of July 2011 - 2.55 p.m].

"O Allah, You are its Rubb; You created it; You guided it to Islam; You have taken its life back and You know best its insight and outer condition. We have come as intercessors, so forgive him"

"O Allah, he is in Your Protection and inside the surroundings of Your Refuge. Safeguard him from the trial of the grave and the punishment of the Hell. You keep Your Promise and You deserve to be praised. O Allah! Forgive him and be merciful to him. Indeed, You are the Forgiving, the Merciful"

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